This blog is pretty specific to the Marine Corps services (and more specifically to Camp Lejeune). I'm not familiar with the other branches but I'm sure that there are similar things available!
I know, I've yet to become a MilSpouse (Sept 2011 here I come!), but I am not one to sit at home and wait until my Marine comes home. I am fearless when it comes to going out and getting the information I need. And I NEED this information to survive the Military life!!
I moved to Jacksonville, NC in December 2009 after a long year of battling unemployment/underemployment in my beloved Washington DC. I felt sad and mopey that I would be facing the same thing here in the Jax/Camp Lejeune (CL) area. My options for staying busy were working (at Target, which I would have loved) or volunteering. I ended up getting a job I really love and am passionate about (that's a different story entirely)... Suffice it to say, unless you have a network, it's hard to know how to adjust to the military lifestyle.
My Marine came home late, left at the butt-crack of dawn, and over again. I had my house, my car, and my puppy to fill my time in the first few days.
One day, I was sick of feeling sad for myself so I made some calls and tried to get on base to get some information. I was SO excited about what I learned that day. I met the Family Readiness Officer (FRO), learned about
Marine Corps Community Services (MCCS) and the
Lifestyle, Insight, Knowledge and Skills (LINKS) classes!
There is a LOT to talk about when I say MCCS but basically, from what I know, it houses a majority of the services offered on a MC base. Think... Fitness centers, the Exchange,
MC Family Team Building, and much much more!!
I want to focus on
LINKS, however, because this is where I felt most welcomed. A lot of services on base are targeted toward military family and spouses. So
as a non-spouse, it's hard to feel like you fit in anywhere... but you still want the information. Here's where LINKS saved me!
LINKS offers workshops for:
- Spouses, fiancees AND girlfriends/boyfriends
- Parents
- Teens, tweens and kids
- Navy
I got to learn about the
structure of the Corps, a little bit about what the heck all those
crazy acronyms mean (they give you a Marine to English dictionary!!), learned out to read an
LES (Leave and Earning Statement, essentially his pay stub), and how to
navigate the base for resources that are available, and more... I ate this information up!!!
The best part about LINKS is the "N" of their name. It stands for Networking. You get to meet other people who live the same sort of lifestyle. I have learned so much from these women. These are the women who live by these things which I absolutely adore... I shall adopt them henceforth on my blog!!
"Semper Gumby (always flexible)"
and
There is no rank between non-service members.
You might disagree with me on this but I didn't earn my FH's rank, so I won't wear it.
It makes no difference to me if I am friends with a LCpl's wife or a Captain's wife...
*obviously, use discretion... this is real life not "Army Wives"
I know this is a HEATED topic but I feel strongly about this. I don't need to find out your husband's rank or last name to decide if we can be friends!
and this is my blog so I can do what I want!
I know they have LINKS at each of the major MC installations. I hope that if you are intimately involved (hehe) with the Marine Corps, you'll take the time to learn about it!
Love,
Reina
